INTRODUCTION OF THE ARTICLE
Your life doesn't just " happen " or does it ? For many people life just goes by and we are " victim" of events circumstances and situations . The truth is carefully designed by you . You must believes that being proactive means that conscious control over your life . Setting goals and working to achieves them . Instead if reacting to events and waiting for opportunities . We love to procrastinate and never make the hard choices that enable us to succesed . We can choose to eliminate all from of procrastination from our lives . Self- awareness ; the understanding that you do have a choice . If someone abused you , you can choose to intsult them back . Conscience the ability to consult your inner conscience to make right decision for yourself based on you core principles and be liefs . Creative imagination the ability to envisage other responses . Independent will you do not have to conform to expectations of others but have the freedom to choose your own unique reaction .
SUMMARISE OF THE ARTICLE
Are you in control ? The choices you make will determine success or failure . Proactive folk about conditions in which they have little or no control . They focus on areas which they can change and influence .
Our life doesn't just " happen " or does it ? For many people , life just goes by and we are "victims " of events , circumstances and situations.
The truth is your life is carefully designed by you . Each decision and choice you make are all yours . Every moments , every situation ,provides a new choices . And the choices that we make will determine your life . Such as Roshan Thiran friend's who was an FBI hostage negotiator , George Kolhrieser describes this " helpless " situation as being taken " hostage " .
Besides that , a few year ago , someone came to Roshan Thiran and lamented about the state of person's life and how " unlucky " the person was . So he decided to help this person and asked him to list down the key things he did that day . After , Roshan Thiran heard his story and asked him why did he have not achieved much far and his friend answered back that he was really unlucky and never get the breaks like other people . After he listen his answer , he smile and sign because he found that many people have common theme ―we live to procrastinate and never make the hard choices that enabled us to success .
Choosing to skip a movie to get work done or choosing to not eat junk food to become healthy are little choices that we all make daily . And we can choose to proactive and we can choose to eliminate all forms of procrastination from our lives . Being proactive is about taking responsibility for your life . You can't blaming everything on your boss and others . proactive people recognise that they are " responseable " . They don't blame events , circumstances or other people for their behavior . They know they choose their behavior .
Reactive people , on the other hand , or are often affected by external stimuli . They forget that they have the power to choose their response . Proactive people also tend to have positive language . Proactive folk never worry about the conditions which they have little or no control . They will focus on areas which they can change and influence .
No 1 habit from Stephen Covey's ― The 7 habit of highly effective people believe that being proactive means talking conscious control over your life , setting goals and working to achieve them . Instead of reacting to events and working for opportunities . You go out and create your own events and find an opportunities . There is a gap between stimulus and response and within this gap lies the choices for our proactive response . Such as self - awareness , conscience , creactive imagination and independent will .
According to Chinssy Scivique ― a...
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